I have been on alt a long time now and as all do, over time, develop and mature (well hopefully otherwise I am stagnant pond weed). I have come to understand there are two types of Dominants. Those who wish to contain and control, limit and mould. The other to enable and allow the other to be the true self of which submission is a true part but only a part of their being. I am an Enabling Dominant. Neither is 'right' or 'wrong' both equal, dependant upon what is sought and where a submissive are upon the individual journey. If you seek the contain type then always happy to talk and chat but do not consider me as the best choice for you.
I savour the sharing and submission of those who wish to join. I am respectful as well as Dominant. Some say I am a "player" I would disagree, I am open and honest and have been blessed to be granted the honour of being intimate with a few, but I am an incorrigible flirt and if that leads to fun, then am fine with that. If not hey it's great to make and chat with friends
I have recently ended a 13 yr Relationship and am back in the UK South West, able to host and travel.
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My Ideal Person:
A person of fun, with truth, integrity and honesty. Knowing it can be for fun or more, who ever knows.
Open about themselves, their desires, limitations (rt) and limits (though discovering is also fun). Happy with online but would hope (sometimes in vain) to work towards rt meets, where possible.
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